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Somebody That I Used to Know Lyrics

by Gotye

Lyricist: Gotye, Kimbra

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Somebody That I Used to Know Lyrics

Now and then I think of when we were together Like when you said you felt so happy you could die Told myself that you were right for me But felt so lonely in your company But that was love and it's an ache I still remember You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness Like resignation to the end Always the end So when we found that we could not make sense Well you said that we would still be friends But I'll admit that I was glad that it was over But you didn't have to cut me off Make out like it never happened And that we were nothing And I don't even need your love But you treat me like a stranger And that feels so rough You didn't have to stoop so low Have your friends collect your records And then change your number I guess that I don't need that though Now you're just somebody that I used to know Now you're just somebody that I used to know Now you're just somebody that I used to know Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over But had me believing it was always something that I'd done And I don't wanna live that way Reading into every word you say You said that you could let it go And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know... But you didn't have to cut me off Make out like it never happened And that we were nothing And I don't even need your love But you treat me like a stranger And that feels so rough You didn't have to stoop so low Have your friends collect your records And then change your number I guess that I don't need that though Now you're just somebody that I used to know Somebody I used to know Somebody Now you're just somebody that I used to know Somebody I used to know Somebody Now you're just somebody that I used to know I used to know That I used to know I used to know Somebody...

Meaning of Somebody That I Used to Know

“Somebody That I Used to Know” is a devastatingly effective exploration of post-breakup grief and the lingering pain of betrayal, delivered with Gotye’s signature melancholic charm. The core theme revolves around the slow, deliberate dismantling of a relationship by a former partner who seemingly refuses to acknowledge the emotional damage inflicted. Initially presented as a nostalgic reflection – “Now and then I think of when we were together” – the song quickly reveals a sharp undercurrent of resentment and hurt. The lyrics meticulously detail how the narrator was subjected to a cold, calculated abandonment; not just a simple breakup, but a systematic erasure of their shared history, evidenced by friends collecting records and changing numbers. This isn’t simply sadness; it's a profound sense of being treated as an inconvenience, a discarded object rather than a valued human connection. Gotye masterfully captures the feeling of being stuck in a limbo between acceptance and fury, repeatedly stating “Now you’re just somebody that I used to know,” which functions less as a simple observation and more as a chilling encapsulation of their diminished status in the ex-partner's life. The repeated insistence on the former lover’s callousness – "You didn't have to cut me off" – highlights the feeling of being deliberately wounded. Ultimately, the song isn’t about romantic love lost, but rather about the agonizing process of moving on when someone actively prevents you from doing so. It’s a poignant commentary on emotional detachment and the quiet cruelty that can accompany heartbreak, leaving the listener with a palpable sense of discomfort and empathy for the narrator's enduring pain.

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