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If I Can't Have You Lyrics

by Shawn Mendes

Lyricist: Shawn Mendes, Angela Williamson

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If I Can't Have You Lyrics

I can't write one song that's not about you Can't drink without thinking about you Is it too late to tell you that Everything means nothing if I can't have you? I'm in Toronto and I got this view But I might as well be in a hotel room (Yeah) It doesn't matter 'cause I'm so consumed Spending all my nights reading texts from you Oh, I'm good at keeping my distance I know, that you're the feeling I'm missing You know that I hate to admit it But everything means nothing if I can't have you I can't write one song that's not about you Can't drink without thinking about you Is it too late to tell you that Everything means nothing if I can't have you? I can't write one song that's not about you Can't drink without thinking about you Is it too late to tell you that Everything means nothing if I can't have you? I'm so sorry that my timing's off But I can't move on if we're still gonna talk Is it wrong for me to not want half I want all of you, all the strings attached Oh, I'm good at keeping my distance I know, that you're the feeling I'm missing You know that I hate to admit it But everything means nothing if I can't have you I can't write one song that's not about you Can't drink without thinking about you Is it too late to tell you that Everything means nothing if I can't have you? I can't write one song that's not about you Can't drink without thinking about you Is it too late to tell you that Everything means nothing if I can't have you? I'm trying, to move on, forget you, but I hold on Everything means nothing, everything means nothing, babe I'm trying, to move on, forget you, but I hold on Everything means nothing if I can't have you I can't write one song that's not about you Can't drink without thinking about you Is it too late to tell you that Everything means nothing if I can't have you? I can't write one song that's not about you Can't drink without thinking about you Is it too late to tell you that Everything means nothing if I can't have you?

Meaning of If I Can't Have You

“If I Can’t Have You” is a raw and intensely vulnerable exploration of obsessive longing and the desperate need for complete connection within a romantic relationship. Shawn Mendes delivers this plea with a palpable sense of frustration and heartache, capturing the agonizing feeling of being utterly consumed by another person. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of someone trapped in a cycle of preoccupation – unable to create art, find joy in simple pleasures like drinking, or fully experience their surroundings without constantly returning to the object of their affection. Mendes utilizes stark imagery: a sterile Toronto view mirroring an empty hotel room, countless text messages representing futile attempts at communication, and a frustrating inability to move on despite conscious efforts to do so. The repeated refrain, “Everything means nothing if I can’t have you,” isn't simply a declaration of love, but rather a desperate assertion of value – the individual feels their life lacks meaning without this person present. The song subtly reveals a hesitancy and even shame in admitting these feelings; Mendes acknowledges his distance-keeping tendencies and struggles to articulate the depth of his desire. It’s a poignant portrayal of wanting “all of you, all the strings attached,” highlighting the vulnerability inherent in truly desiring complete ownership within a relationship. Ultimately, Mendes communicates a heartbreaking truth: sometimes, love isn't about control or reciprocation, but an all-encompassing need that can render everything else irrelevant. The song’s cyclical structure underscores this trapped state, emphasizing the frustrating inability to break free from the powerful pull of this undeniable longing, creating a deeply resonant and emotionally honest piece.

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