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Ex-Factor Lyrics

by Lauryn Hill

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Ex-Factor Lyrics

It could all be so simple But you'd rather make it hard Loving you is like a battle And we both end up with scars Tell me, who I have to be? To get some reciprocity See, no one loves you more than me And no one ever will Is this just a silly game That forces you to act this way, Forces you to scream my name, Then pretend that you can't stay? Tell me, who I have to be? (I know we gotta do) To get some reciprocity (You know, you know) See, no one loves you more than me And no one ever will No matter how I think we grow You always seem to let me know It ain't workin' It ain't workin' And when I try to walk away You'd hurt yourself to make me stay This is crazy This is crazy I keep letting you back in How can I explain myself (I don't understand why) As painful as this thing has been I just can't be with no one else See, I know what we've got to do You let go and I'll let go too 'Cause no one's hurt me more than you And no one ever will No matter how I think we grow You always seem to let me know It ain't workin' It ain't workin' And when I try to walk away You'd hurt yourself to make me stay This is crazy This is crazy Care for me, care for me I know you care for me There for me, there for me Said you'd be there for me Cry for me, cry for me You said you'd die for me Give to me, give to me Why won't you live for me? Care for me, care for me You said you'd care for me There for me, there for me Said you'd be there for me Cry for me, cry for me You said you'd die for me Give to me, give to me Why won't you live for me? Care for me, care for me You said you'd care for me There for me, there for me Said you'd be there for me Cry for me, cry for me You said you'd die for me Give to me, give to me Why won't you live for me? Care for me, care for me You said you'd care for me There for me, there for me Said you'd be there for me Give to me, give to me Why won't you live for me? Cry for me, cry for me You said you'd die for me Care, there, cry, give Where were you When I needed you? Care, there, cry, give Where were you When I needed you?

Meaning of Ex-Factor

“Ex-Factor” captures the agonizing cycle of a deeply unhealthy and codependent relationship. Lauryn Hill’s voice conveys frustration, pain, and bewilderment as she dissects a dynamic where love becomes a battleground, marked by self-inflicted wounds and manipulative tactics. The repeated questioning – “Who I have to be?” – reveals her exhaustion of constantly trying to appease the other person's need for drama and validation, ultimately sacrificing her own well-being. Despite endless gestures of care, sacrifice, and even promises of death, the relationship consistently fails, highlighting a profound lack of reciprocity and emotional maturity. The desperate pleas for someone to “live for me” underscore her feeling trapped in a role of unconditional devotion while acknowledging the devastating impact this person has on her life – a painful realization that no one truly understands or supports her needs.

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